As [Daniel Rose](http://www.sexgodmethod.com/) states in his phenomenal ebook [The Sex God Method](http://www.sexgodmethod.com/), _Sex Is The Ultimate Method of Attraction_.
Yet what most guys are learning about attraction involves 59-step routines, creepy hypno-patterns, wearing silly outfits, and generally trying to create attraction with techniques that are highly over-complicated.
What teachers like [Daniel Rose](http://www.sexgodmethod.com/) know is that one of the best ways to attract and *keep* beautiful women is to be able to give them levels of sexual pleasure like they’ve never experienced before. Though many guys realize this, [Daniel Rose](http://www.sexgodmethod.com/) points out that most guys are focusing on learning more techniques to physically stimulate women when really the key to being a better lover lies in stimulating her mind:
“It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place, what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to arouse her psychologically. Combine this arousal with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great sex.”
What I really liked about this book is that the method itself is a very simple model that is built upon four fundamental elements: Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion. It’s a very natural approach to developing sexual confidence because it doesn’t involve learning a step-by-step method, rather it’s about learning to apply these elements in a balanced way. There are also plenty of examples and guidelines in this book on how to develop mastery in these areas.
Probably the greatest value in this book is that the focus is primarily on psychological stimulation, _not_ physical stimulation. Most sex advice marketed to men is focused on physical techniques, and it’s rare to find a book that talks about ways to stimulate a women’s mind that when combined with _basic_ physical technique will give her more sexual pleasure than she thought possible.
I’d highly recommend this book to any guys who are interested in learning how to give women the most intense sexual experiences of their lives (I’m guessing that’s most of us). Also, this book is an ace for guys who are new to pickup (especially virgins — preparing yourself is an excellent idea) because gaining sexual confidence is not just a huge asset in the bedroom, it’s a huge asset to your overall game. [Order this book _now_](http://www.sexgodmethod.com/) (I bought the paperback and keep it on bookshelf to read through occasionally — it even has a sexy picture of a naked girl on the front!) and your women will be truly thankful and completely hooked on you.
