Since the raving debut of my book, Social Circle From Scratch, I keep remembering TONS of powerful techniques that I forgot to include in my book.
Fear not, loyal readers! I will be sharing the best of the best with you, starting with a simply powerful conversation starter that will have you charming groups of beautiful women.
Tonight I was out with a friend, being the Mayor Of The Party, as usual, and one of these techniques popped into my head.
It’s so powerful. It’s FOUR easy-to-remember words you can pull out at any party that will have you engaging women confidently in a way that is cool and attractive.
The thought came to me when I suddenly found myself alone at a club when my friend was dragged home by a girl he met that night (poor guy!) So I looked around the party I was at and saw a group of fun, sexy girls laughing and having a great time. All I did was walk up and say, “You guys look cool.”
(Yes, I know they are girls and I said “guys” but it’s just a casual way to greet people around here.)
That was it. Nothing fancy, just those four words.
What happened next is THEY started asking ME all kinds of questions, “What’s your name?” “Where are you from?” “What do you do?” etc.
The conversation pretty much took care of itself at that point.
The reason WHY this works is because it’s a very honest approach to making friends, and people can sense that genuine, authentic, and friendly vibe. Women LOVE guys who have the courage to just walk over without a fancy shmancy line and be cool enough to introduce themselves in this very classy way.
It didn’t end there! I did it over and over again, then next thing I know BOOM I had triggered “The Mayor Effect” (I share many powerful techniques on HOW to create “The Mayor Effect” in my book Social Circle From Scratch.)
By using Sexual Subcommunication and The Art Of Proposing (two more techniques from my book), two of these girls who were best friends tried to kiss me, then the “alpha female” leader of the group insisted that I take her number (even though earlier she told me she had a boyfriend!)
*Sigh* Just another day in the life.
The next time you’re in a social environment — whether it be a networking event, a party, or a sport activity — give this a try. Approaching from this place of sincerity will revolutionize your social life.
Try it and let me know what happens!
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Love it. I hate how simple this shit is. My “pick-up community” mind has been wired to think I need all this bull in order to pull girls. Even now I find myself downloading products “just to see” what I can learn. I’m not having as much success as you, Terry. But I am slowly making great strides. I feel like my experience is starting to click. These things you and Brent teach really start coming together once you get it.
Also, some guys may think these type of openers seem like you’re giving too much away by saying that their cool. Like you said, Terry. Girls love it when a guy is just friendly and doesn’t have some sleezy line to use. Also, people are generally nice and approachable. One of my biggest hurdles was thinking everyone was out to get me. You’ll find if you’re just relax and social, no one will give you shit.
True… every word. If you become a corrupt marketer Terry i just hope you convey your understandings as simple as possible like this article. Hopefully then belief systems can change back to easy + hard work as a result of action and no one gets anxiety from the overload of mental masturbation.